If you haven’t marked your calendar yet, don’t forget St. Patrick’s Day is Thursday, March 17th. You can check out my family-friendly ideas here.
You will never believe it?? But all of my 4 kids are at school today! Woo Hoo! 🙂
Please know ~ I love my kids DEARLY, but day after day after day of having sick kids home from school has tested my patience, faith and joy. Not to mention, the lice is back. Ugh. Thankfully, I do not have it, but we found nits in 3 (yes, three) members of my family. Yuck!
Thankfully, my husband (who is AMAZING!) stayed home yesterday, and our washer and dryer went non-stop for 13 hours. We have cleaned, disinfected, combed, washed, boiled, shampooed, sprayed, and cleaned more. Not to mention, we have prayed. (I even called my mentor and asked her what specific verses I could pray for this lice infestation ~ I’m not kidding!). What a winter it has been!
I am trying to learn from this experience…so here are my Top 6 Strategies for staying sane in the midst of sick kids.
1. Send for help.
I used to be a very independant, self-sufficient, “I can do it” type girl. Then I had 4 kids, and I realized I am in way over my head. I have learned to ask for help from family & friends, and share with my husband what I need.
If I need to get out of the house after being “cooped up” for 5 days straight, I’ll now share that with my husband. Or if my daughter really is craving jello, and our pantry is jello-less, Grandma’s & Grandpa’s love to make little trips over. Or for the friend that says, “Can I bring you a latte?” ~ the answer is always YES! 🙂 In the midst of sick kids, it helps to send for help when needed.
Now that my kids are 7, 8, 9, and 16 ~ they are usually “on the go” more often than not. While our kids are sick, it’s a great time to take advantage of their desire to snuggle. 🙂
…however, be sure to sanitize often! Thankfully I’ve not caught “the bug” that has been on the loose in our home since January. And thank goodness for Lysol and other household cleaners! We have wipes, sprays, cleaners and sanitizer in every room!
4. Sick Bell
Last year I purchased a simple bell at the Dollar Store now known as our “Sick Bell”. When the kids are feeling under the weather, I sanitize the bell, and then they get to keep it with them at all times.
Not only do the kids enjoy having the bell close-by, it’s helpful for me and John too. This week it was especially helpful when my daughter started throwing up in the night. She rang, and I ran. I love our sick bell!
Over the past few weeks, I’ve had the chance to watch a lot of great movies with my kids. One friend let us borrow the whole Anne of Green Gables series (wonderful! I’d never seen it.), my mentor brought over a bag of movie classics, plus Grandpa Bultema brought over the whole Sugar Creek Gang collection (another new favorite).
Showing good, wholesome, family-friendly movies has helped make all of the time pass by more quickly! 🙂
The most important lesson I’ve learned in this “season of sickness” is to surrender and trust Him completely. God does know what He is doing (even if it doesn’t “feel” like it).
I’ll admit, the week before the Red Hot retreat, I could/should have been a basket case. My plan was to prepare/plan/pray that whole week ~ and instead we had sick kids and lice. Ugh.
I had to let it all go….trust in Him wholeheartedly ~ being anxious and uptight wasn’t going to solve anything, especially in the midst of a crazy detour.
Looking back, what a gift to spend that time before the Retreat with my little girl, snuggling on the couch, writing out Scripture, while we watched movies and rested together.
I’m still working on surrendering in the midst of the “lice situation”, but I must admit that my marriage is stronger and my love for my husband is deeper than ever. God doesn’t waste ANYTHING, of this I am sure….
My hope is that I won’t have to lean on these “Sick Day Strategies” much longer…but I would love to hear from you! What have you learned works best for your family when your kids are under the weather?? Share with us please!!!
Thanks for stopping by *She Sparkles*!! Have a healthy, joy-filled, flu-free day! 🙂
P.S. Winners of some of my recent Giveaways….My “The Me Project” winner is Kara from Just 1 Step and the Jesus Calling book goes to Jennifer from NJ. Thanks so much to all who entered! I have a number of exciting giveaways planned for the next few weeks, please be sure to check them out! I LOVE sharing free, great resources with my *She Sparkles* friends! 🙂
P.S For more Works for Me Wednesday ideas, head over and visit Kristen at We Are That Family. Get ready to read a TON of great suggestions! 🙂